how to always make the right decision

Hi loves,

I am so happy to bring you a new email on how you can begin to connect with the universe so that you can seriously design your life the way you want in alignment with your soul while also making it one that you are wildly obsessed with.

There was most definitely a time in my life where I actually believed I didn’t have an intuition / gut instinct or could even say for sure that I myself knew what it was like to receive guidance from my intuition and the divine…

Like… It was as though I expected my higher self or spirit or etheric entities to come down, shake my shoulders, look me in the eye and tell me what to do with complete clarity.

This made making any aligned and intuitive decisions was really hard, lengthy and obviously extremely complicated for me - for nothing.

Even making small decisions felt like this massive endeavour and thing that I could and would potentially completely fuck up.

Here is the thing:

You can always work and figure things out. You can even try new thoughts and things out. You can also feel crazy uncertain and super unsure while you do it.

You can calmly and peacefully make definite choices about what you want, choose to move forward and live FULLY.

No complications, extra wait time or high levels of difficulty required.

Doing the “right” and “aligned” thing and making the right decisions aren’t things that are SO fragile that you can “mess” them up. 

And that has become very true in my life - especially as I embody and live this message.

You absolutely cannot fuck anything up. 

That just isn’t a part of the deal. 

The universe never judges us for what we do…. we do that to ourselves.

So here is the deal:

It is safe for you to play around and try new things in your mind.

It is safe for you to play around and try new things out in life.

It is safe for you to play around and try new things out in love.

It is incredibly safe for you to live your life - and actively participate with the creation of it.

The pressure you are (and have been) experiencing, was only ever a self-imposed one.

One that we can let go of.

The pressure that it causes you is restricting AF.

There is even the idea that you could potentially mess things up or fail or make that one wrong move or a decision that would derail everything…

… and this makes it nearly impossible to live, make choices, grow and move forward in life.

And also makes it completely impossible for you to also freely follow your heart and do what you are meant and here to do!

These are the ideas from the mind that keeps us stuck, limited and feeling small.

So here is your new core belief to replace all of the restricting and limiting old ones: You can never fuck anything up. 

I promise. 

In fact, the universe promises.

Your soul promises.

Here is how I work with my guidance system: I get still and tune into myself and whatever my heartfelt desires are (aka. The longings of my soul) in all moments and times.

I have learned how to always be in tune into what feels right for me.

And most importantly, to always be in tune with what I WANT, how that looks like and FEELS and how to get there.

NOT what is going to be the most practical / logical choice or whatever makes the most sense (ie. what I think I should do)…

… and NOT after all the fears have come up or whenever I’ve analyzed it all deliberately for YEARS…

… and NOT based on all the “worst case scenarios” and “what could go wrongs”… 

BUT based on WHAT I WANT in any given moment.

In my experience, it is always been safe to follow my heart and desires, then follow the flow of the universe - and what happens to me in my reality.

It’s also safe for you to follow your heart and desires too. 

Your desires have been placed within your heart and are your safe guidance system for always making the right decisions.

Your soul has been waiting for you to realize this deep connection.

It can be as simple as you asking yourself the following:

“What do I desire right now? Is this _________ what I really want? Do I really desire to have / do ___________ ?”

Then I want you to pay attention and see what your response is in your body when you ask yourself these 3 questions about what you want…

You can even do this while journaling - so that you can document your answers.

For me, a “YES” feels in my body like an easy decision. And it sounds like it takes me towards opportunity, fun and grace. And like flow. And of the energy that says “Of course!!!” Plus tons of excitement.

And let me ask you…. Wouldn’t that be amazing, exciting and too easy!

I promise you, this is how real life is meant to be lived! 

I know it for a fact.

Life proves this to me every day.

I just pay attention to the feelings I get in my gut that always shows up within my body BEFORE any of the negative ideas emerge (or wishful thinking). Telling me why I shouldn’t or to be afraid. 

Before any and all the negative or limiting ideas pop up in my mind. 

Do you feel like that ____________ is something that you want - deep down?

Does it feel good for you? Does it feel fun for you? Does it make you feel expansive, flowy, inspiring and light you up?

This is where you get to (learn how to) trust your desires first hand - through you own experience of things going right. 

This is where you trust the expansive dreams and let go of holding onto where we are so tightly.

And learn how to trust the deep-rooted and safely placed desires of our hearts and souls.

So, the next time you feel confused about your choice / decision or when making a decision… 

Ask yourself this:

What do I really want?

What do I actually and really WANT?

At this point, I have come to believe that what I want to do is to always be aligned with my higher self, be connected with the numinous and also live an abundant prosperous life - while simultaneously helping others learn how to do the same. 

What I long to do and have in my life and manifest, the universe is my infinite supply and shows me how to attract specific abundance and prosperity to me - the way I want it.

The way it wants to shock, awe and surprise me.

Following my intuition and heart has always been the thing that shows me the way, makes me the most aligned, abundant and experientially makes me the most happiest.

I have learned over time through first hand experience and also believe that it is safe for me to trust myself, the universe - and perpetually safe for me to follow my heart and soul.

You too, can learn how to make the right decisions for yourself quickly..

Let me ask you. What is your experience? Are our intentions, goals and desires safe guidance? Is it safe for you to follow your heart? How has it shown you the way? Do you feel like it safe for you to trust yourself?

Are your truest desires just your higher self leading you in the right direction?

Are your truest desires just your higher self leading you in the right direction?

I’d love to hear from you!! What do you think?

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♡ Love,
Tara Pilaprat xx
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