how to clear soul ties + take your power back
Hi love,
Here is another great question from the FXYWLF community on Instagram.
>> Q: Is there any way to get rid of a soul tie?
When thinking about Soul-ties, it helps to break them down into two different categories within the topic:
— A connection to someone that transcends lifetimes and distances -- eg. someone you feel a neutral towards (have successfully healed and integrated), or love / loved (there is still positive aspects and energy there).
— A connection to someone whom we have unknowingly been giving our power away (to) -- eg. someone you don't need anymore in this life (soul says so), someone that must be integrated (aspects), someone no longer contributing to your well- being (descending frequency).
It could be either one of these that you are dealing with at any given time — also on top of that there truly are many different kinds of “soul connections”, but here I’m only going to focus on ones we may wish to remove.
When there is a deep soul connection that you want to take your power back from, that is always the first step - which is knowing about it and deciding to call it back to you.
Sometimes these are the people (that we want to distance ourselves from) still currently in our life, whether in day to day, or in our minds. When these people are still in our lives, that’s where we need to set boundaries (one).
When they are still on our minds, we have to realize that while they may not actually be there in real day to day life, but they are still living and taking space in our heads. And that is a sign they must go, be evicted and cord cut (two).
In these cases it’s really easy to know when someone needs to be “boundaried” or “cut”.
For instance, your daily life will point those people out to you, you’ll know them when you see them. Even still, there is the deeper layers of those who still weigh on you subconsciously and therefore unconsciously, and in this case your nighttime dreams will point them out to you.
Either way you will always feel a form of healing and integration that happens when these seemingly tiny internal rituals takes place. When you do them you learn how to see things differently, you’re empowered in a way you didn’t see coming or know you could be, and what weighed as heavy burdens and baggage for you now feels light and airy.
Sometimes long after all that is said and done, there is even deeper work to do still and over time, your dreams will often indicate that when the time is right for their proper integration (according to your readiness and the timeline that you are on).
In these cases, what I would recommend is that you:
- Practice offering your neutral energy towards them. Do this to practice showing your higher self that you see the information but are in it for the “bringing things to light” awareness part and knowing yourself deeper.
- Devote yourself to your unfolding of learning more about that aspect of yourself (including dream details), while also loving yourself no matter what shows up each time. (Specifically with repeating dreams of the same person every time that spans years).
- Take into very deep consideration that you are looking at disowned parts of yourself, what aspects these people are showing you (as them) that you thought you were missing (without them), but in fact those aspects that you uncover were always within you.
By doing these small thought practices, rituals, and energetic shifts you begin to fully take your power back and that compounds and adds up so much over time. In this case you never knew what was missing until it came back.
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Massive massive love to you.
Love, Tara xx
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