on listening to your self, knowing what you want, + clearing fears + blockages

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Here's another great question from the FXYWLF community...

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>> Listening to your real self, knowing what you really want and letting go of blockages / fear.

First let’s talk about listening…

We listen when there’s something worth listening to right? We also listen intently when there’s someone speaking that we resonate with and feel trust with - who happens to know a lot about a topic (that we desperately have to know about).

By listening to them with our full attention they become a VIP of influence. We will quiet everything to simply listen. We listen because we feel respect towards this kind of authority. They are leaders. They are way showers. They are guiding the way as they are that many steps away from where we want to be. These are the kinds of people you know you should be listening to right? We can clearly tell that they have the codes and information that we need. 

With that being said… Who have you been listening to (instead of yourself)? Who are you placing above your own self as an authority in your life?

Because if it hasn’t been your inner / higher self, then it makes sense for the confusion. The fact of the matter is, you are your own VIP, authority, leader, and way shower. You’ve been waiting for your own self for the answers all along.

This is where you (need to / have to practice and also completely) stop listening to other peoples opinions, and learn how to start following your heart (that’s your guide), and know that will guide you to any and all truth you need. Even if you don’t yet know what you need to know, the answers are there waiting for you. 

Some important facts about your heart:
A) has all of the answers you will ever need
B) your soul’s desires were placed in it for you to discover and walk out
C) is the seat of your soul
D) has an electromagnetic field 1000x greater than your brain - which is basically a giant magnet
E) you can tap into miracles by tapping into your spiritual heart / hridaya (ie. your mystical heart - not your physical beating heart, nor your anahata heart chakra) (For more on this amazing topic where I go deep on this kind of mastering your divine magic within, check out my course Magical Rituals >> www.fxywlf.com/mrrm - monthly payment plan available)

When you tap into this part of your Self, this is where our soul and us are One. This is where our paramatma (supreme self / super soul) resides whom is identical with god and spirit. This is where our super-consciousness resides and represents the essence of everything, the background of existence, everything that always was, is, and will be. This is where our connection to ultimate reality is, where the our hearts and everyone’s hearts are One. This is also known as the heart cave. This is where god resides and sits along side us in life. This is where god truly is the  true owner of the fruits of our labor. This is where god watches us be. This is where god is with us. Just like this image...

The heart cave is the home of our divine self that we honestly all tend to have forgotten. I mean of course we have because of ‘forgetting’ upon being born. This is why we come, why we must remember, WHAT we must remember. We’re lucky if we receive the grace to wake up to this truth in this lifetime, let alone hope for a chance of it in future lifetimes.

Our self-awakening (awakening to the true nature of reality) is a wish, desire within us and request that the universe answers. Perhaps it's also our dharma and karma to wake up in this life. Sometimes it is handed to us in as a rude awakening. Either way... However it’s given to us, the ultimate truth is home. It’s safe. It’s only love here. Knowing the truth is our greatest power and source of our sense of faith. 

So, knowing what you really want involves talking and listening to yourself. It involves the magic that comes from the discovery through observing what you’ve been saying, thinking and believing is true to yourself. Whatever you’ve been getting, you’ve been saying, thinking and believing to be true. When you change that, things change. 

What you need to know:
- Knowing that you don’t want something is a guide.
- Knowing that you don’t resonate with something is a guide.
- Knowing that there’s something missing is a guide.
- Knowing that you prefer this versus that is a guide.
- Knowing you need more information is a guide.
- Knowing that you don’t know is a guide.

Because this is where you get to ask. This is where you get to get the real next piece that you need, which generally is more knowing.

Us manifesting our desires (successfully) comes down to knowing. It involves practicing your senses of inner knowing, trust, certainty, clarity - and by removing fears and blockages - so that you can do your work by holding the vision for the outcome of having what you want. Then that knowing working through god with in you, your heart, spirit, you will manifest that in your experience. 

God works with universal law. How things work are universal law, but the process involves this personal relationship. Until this two-way relationship is made aware of, it’s a one way unconscious process. Therefore, figuring out what has been happening unconsciously is the first step. 

This means you can:
- Look at your life where you aren’t happy.
- Look at all or certain areas of life that you want to improve.
- Look at what experiences are happening to you that you dislike.
- Look at what patterns seem to be happening to you over and over that you absolutely are over and no longer available for.
- Look at where you take on other peoples beliefs, even if agreeing with them jokingly where you actually don’t agree at all or feel the opposite.
- Look at the people in your life and ways people treat you that you don’t prefer.
- Look at where you are giving your power away.
- Look at what you haven’t been looking at and paying attention to that really needs your attention.

As you can see, you’ve already been guided!

You already KNOW a thing.

You already have awareness of your next step. 

You know that you something is off.

So now it’s time for you to take some time and look at it, take care of it, make a shift or a slight change that moves things in a better direction, the direction you want to go in. (For setting intentions, and a direction in life I have an amazing Life Vision and Intention Setting Workbook and Guide, only $33, that will help you >> www.fxywlf.com/visions-of-the-soul ).

For really knowing what you want, asking the right questions, channelling answers from your subconscious and superconsciousness, aligning to your soul’s dreams, goals and mission, you have to know what you need to ask. That comes with a deep sense of inner and constant questioning what is happening and if that is what you want. Because how you are is what you attract, NOT the opposite. You don’t attract first and then BE later. (For asking the right questions, I highly recommend my 30-Day Guide called Diary of a Mystic, this is big for quantum leaping >> www.fxywlf.com/diary-of-a-mystic - $50). 

Let me ask you some of the right questions to get you started being guided to your next level right now…
- What does your soul need right now?
- What do you want to offer up to god / spirit to handle and take care of on your behalf?
- Since all correct information is always delivered to make the right choices, and decisions, what do you want god to make clear for you in order to walk out your highest expression (reveal the highest and best path)?
- What do you want god / spirit to bring to you?
- What stories are playing out in your life that no longer support who you are and desire to be?

Another thing… Assuming that you need to DO something first before you RECEIVE something is not working for you. The situation, truth and fact is, you are already worthy without doing anything. So how can you let go of assuming control and fall into the flow, and relax into the state of receptivity and openness to inspiration and creativity instead?

When creativity and inspiration guides instead of believing “I have to do this and this and this or blah blah blah will never or can’t happen.” Stop. That’s not true.

If there’s something you need to do, you will be inspired to do it from a willing place in your heart that will occur at the perfect time for everything to flow for you and where everything still gets done. Where all things are already done.

That place exists. But it all starts within you. 

Love, Tara xx

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