how to discern between intuition, guidance, fear & anxiety
Hi love!
How are you?
How are your manifestations coming along?
I have been using my Soul Abundance mini-course for my daily affirmations on money and attracting it -- and I want to report back to you all that has been proving to be interesting...
While things are WAY up monetarily (!!!) for sure because of this...
Merc rx is still acting up with little glitches here and there and I'm vibrating from a state of unbotheredness, which is helping things be solved quickly at the same time...
And this afternoon I'll be prepping to make my own luxurious shampoo with natural ingredients, like green tea and aloe vera, that I can't wait to use (as soon as I get my ingredients I'll be making the conditioner).
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Now, moving on to another interesting top 2 questions from a lovely member of the community...
How to discern the wise inner voice and the voice of fear and distinguish between intuition and anxiety?
This is a great question, because it’s a great starting point in understanding how your mind and how things work.
First let’s talk about what I know for sure.
INNER VOICE & INTUITION
For me, my wise inner voice and intuition is always there for me.
It’s there even on days where nothing happens and it seems like a total wash, my intuition and inner voice is still guiding me.
On those days, things look unseeming.
But the truth is, even on those days I end up either seeing things differently, questioning my reality, taking on a new belief / vibration and also stepping in new directions.
Those days seem quiet, but within that outer quiet inside (and with my hands and mind) I am making moves.
I am always making small baby steps, that on the outside don’t look like they are a big deal or important but they are the foundations for things to come.
Sometimes the project I start, just get it started, and it's not meant to be finished right away.
Sometimes the projects or things that I start they won't ever be close to being finished and so they wait until one day when I’m ready and the time is right.
Then on that day everything everything that was done so far is ready for me on the day that I'm ready to move quickly and in quantum leaps.
I am always able to move with ease from one day to the next regardless of what I did the day before.
It just is what i experience.
Whatever I do on X, helps me do Y on the next day, and that leads to Z -- and that takes me to A again with a new idea and I'm already making progress on a project that I didn't know I was going to make.
On my busier days (which aren’t that busy tbh), I find that the little bit I did on slow days help me flow like the wind with all the things I need to do on a busy day.
That’s when I move at a speed I can’t even describe, with energy and movement that takes me from here to there to somewhere else — and each step fills my experience.
Each step finishes one thing and moves me to the next.
And I am not a project chaser.
I do not believe in hustle culture.
If I trigger you, well, then let’s find out why and try to be open to letting me help you move past it.
Triggers are just self righteous, that doesn't mean they are RIGHT (therefore meaning CORRECT and TRUE).
So on my busy days when I find I am flowing for hours with a project, I end up somehow always having the energy to put it to use for my passion.
It’s been placed within me.
I didn’t have to seek it.
I didn’t have to drink coffee or wake up at 6am (for the record, I don’t really drink coffee and I wake up at 9am - because I am a 12th house Aquarius with a pisces Venus and mars and ascendant) -- I am simply always working with what I’ve got and deal with.
Your present moment is your catalytic moment.
The fuel that you somehow have when it’s time to move forward with your passion, has to do with the inner ability that you have within and personal knowledge that backs it all up being put to use that you feel passionate about.
That's the energy your inner child and higher self want for you anyways.
And only you can do what you are here to do with what you have at all times.
So on the busy days, they add up along with all of the quiet days.
The busy and quiet days add up to: progress, pause, movement, speed, growth, ease and effortlessness.
Life is (fairly) stressfree.
What I don't know becomes fun to me.
My flow shows that I am dancing with my work and my guidance.
When I write, I write from my heart and mind, what gets scribed is my soul’s passion on my notepad and I share it with the world.
The dance is indescribable - but it’s livable and knowable by anyone.
Right now you might be a terrible or clumsy dancer, but you could get better at it.
You can live this as a fact too (I teach it in my 40 days of magic course called Magical Rituals).
But what they all add up to is what works.
Your intuition is there as your basic power and ability.
We all have strength provided to us by god (the universe) and with that we all receive direct guidance from our own personal vision.
Our personal vision was placed in our hearts and is what we want for our life.
When there is something we need, be it information we do not have, we ask for it, it comes and naturally too.
The information is what you needed, or the information leads you to asking the right questions which takes you to the right information that resonates
Naturally.
Effortlessly.
Easily.
Even if it takes days to come, its still happening, its still coming.
The care is still being taken and it still feels like a dance.
I can’t say where I end and the universe begins.
FEAR & ANXIETY
Now let’s talk about what doesn’t work…
And I know that for a fact.
What doesn't work is when I give any credit and pay any attention to own inner fear and anxieties beyond what they are here to teach me.
When I feel fear, I know I am looking at things the wrong way.
Let’s see what kind of fears I can list here….
Sometimes there is something I am afraid of doing, and when I realize that I am focusing on something I don’t want to do, I remember that the truth is THAT IT ISN’T ABOUT THAT, and I can delete it from my mind.
When I am thinking of a fear that I am afraid of happening, that’s when I realize that I am in a fearful mindset and I pray and offer it up — I literally and energetically give up and surrender my worry and fear and let the universe take care of it and also delete it.
For example: I have an intense fear now that flares up when it comes to driving and people I love driving.
This particular fear is new to me, I never used to be afraid of anyone driving before, let alone me, so I have to remember to offer it up.
I do this because I know this.
I am not new to this I am true to this.
I surrender my fear in that moment to god and then I let myself feel the feelings of relief because I let myself feel something different.
I choose peace, certainty, protection, faith and trust instead.
I have to.
My whole life can’t be about fear, especially when it involves my most favorite freeing activity in the world (i.e. driving).
I can’t keep that feeling in my mind because a part of me relives it, it vibrates it, and could potentially wreak havoc in my life.
But I don’t, so it doesn’t happen.
I let myself know I am safe, I know that I can be safe and I don’t need to worry.
And then anxiety…
Anxiety is a bitch.
I remember once in my life I went from never feeling anxiety about life to feeling it every day (after a break up in 2006) about everything or nothing (I had no reason for it sometimes for years) and therefore took medication to handle it.
One day (in 2010) suddenly I had to stop all the anxiety medication cold turkey (because my body guided me to) literally over night and within 24 hours.
But it wasn’t until at least 2 years later (in 2012) after that that I learned how to deal with my own personal anxiety myself.
This healing wasn't overnight.
But it came.
This overcoming happened at around the same time as my awakening because I suppose it had to.
I had a moment where I realized that any anxiety that I ever felt was not from something real, because what I thought I was worried about was not even happening at that moment in my reality.
This is key.
If you ARE dealing with it, then the power and path will be given to you (even if you can't see how).
But if you are outside of a stress inducing moment, you have to stop letting it over take you.
You have to take back your power.
The anxiety in this case is not even real to you.
My anxieties and worries were hypothetical and therefore in my mind — meaning they were never for sure things that I could say were true.
How could I know these things for sure?
I am not god.
Here are some advanced questions to tackle this...
1. Would I even want these to be true?
2. If life was a movie of my making, would I ever in a million years consciously choose to play that particular part?
3. If "pretending" was what our unconscious mind does best, could I honestly consciously get behind preferring to feel these ways (especially since beliefs attract experiences)?
4. What am I unconsciously choosing to pretend to "not like" in ________ situation?
(So practice 1) I had to let the fact that the actual “worry” was not right in front of me, to be my reason to erase it from my present moment (in those moments).
I had to take my anxious feeling and finally do something about it then.
(And practice 2) So what I did was I intuitively laid on my stomach, placed my RIGHT hand on my solar plexus and just leave it there (cuz let’s be honest a lot of anxiety happens in bed).
I never read about doing it before at the time.
What happened was it felt as though the anxiety was being sucked out of me.
I finally felt better.
My left hand didn’t work, but my right hand always worked.
I noticed it’s true, my minds worry wasn’t here, so I had to let my body know that and these 2 practices deleted anxiety from my life.
Now, I still feel anxieties sometimes, and fear -- but I also still do these things.
They still work.
They still always help and continue to put me back in a powerful position.
Sometimes you just have to admit that you truly know too much to keep letting the way things are stay any longer.
Things aren’t anything except what you say they are.
So, anxiety and fears have to be treated, handled, integrated and if necessary healed as such.
They have to be looked at each time and handled with care.
You have to be handled with care.
Your mind, body and soul.
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Love,
Tara xx